thanksgiving was good. i went to my aunt's house up north and got stuffed with turkey and all the trimmings. it was good times. i feel like we didn't stay nearly as long as we usually do. we didn't get there until noonish and left at 5:30. oh well. it was good anyway. and we got leftover turkey out of it. that's always a plus.

then this morning chris woke me up and we went out shopping for black friday. he wanted some deals on tools and clothes. he wound up with a couple things, which is good. and it was great to spend practically the whole day with him. yay! and he said his rents told him that he should go somewhere for spring break... he suggested mexico and they said he should go! haha. they'll probably change their minds when it gets closer to that time anyway. but it's nice to dream. haha.

i'm also having a moral dilemma. (i also can't spell... so i dont know if dilemma is spelled that way. haha. but oh well if it isn't!) anyway, i have this friend who is dating someone that is horrible. my friend obviously only sees the good qualities in this person... but i and others see the bad qualities and how they will most likely manifest themselves into problems in their future. when i try to point this fact out, my friend gets very angry and defensive with me. i try to make it as painless as possible, but it's kinda hard seeing as how i care for my friend and dont want to hurt anyone's feelings, or to ruin our relationship. but i also dont want to say nothing and have my friend be unhappy in the longrun. i know how hard it is to listen to outsiders when you're in a relationship like that (like mine and mike's) but it's necessary. and the more people who tell you, the easier it is to see it yourself and then to realize you're making a huge mistake. that's all i'm trying to get at. friend - i love you! but you need to at least open your ears and hear me. there's no doubt i could be wrong, i'm human afterall, but at least hear me! i know i'd want the same.