sits - 2
Saturday, Aug. 23, 2003 - 5:49 pm

random thought: sex in the suburbs


what positive things came out of these past few months in the sexual/relationship areas of your life?

well, one positive thing that's come out in the past few months is that cube and i are more open with each other both sexually and emotionally. i feel like both of us have really let our guard down a lot recently. i think we're much more intimate that we have been in the past and i feel more connected to him than i have in a while. we've taken time out to communicate our likes/dislikes and we've both made some modifications. i'm trying to be more aware of myself for him - he likes me to be all neat and tidy... like to shave my legs and *stuff* regularly, not just when i care to. i'm working on it. i couldn't tell you what modifications cube has made for me. i'm sure there are some, i just can't think of any right now.

but yeah, so we're a lot more open with each other. we used to hold things back and just brush things off that we didn't like and sometimes that would wind up blowing up later. but we're trying harder now to not be that way. it's definitely a good thing. our sex life is definitely benefitting from it. hehe.